What if my situation isn't here?

I am a Christian seeking to live like Jesus in my relationship with [describe the person or role — e.g. my landlord, my stepchild, my ex-spouse]. Using the Bible as the foundation, give me practical first-person attitudes and actions for how to treat this person in a Christlike way. Write each item at ground level — specific enough that I know exactly what it looks like in daily life, not a general principle. Include a Scripture reference from the New Living Translation for each item. Give me both attitudes (how I see and think about this person) and actions (what I actually do). Cover two scenarios: when the relationship is going well, and when it is hard or broken.

I am a Christian facing [describe the situation — e.g. a miscarriage, a bankruptcy, a prodigal adult child, a false accusation at work]. Using the Bible as the foundation, give me practical first-person attitudes and actions for responding in a Christlike way. Write each item at ground level — specific enough that I know exactly what it looks like, not a general principle. Include a Scripture reference from the New Living Translation for each item. Give me both attitudes (how I think and feel about this) and actions (what I actually do). Cover two phases: in the immediate moment when this first happens, and over time as I live with it.