Relationship
Jesus
The relationship that makes every other relationship possible. Everything in PKL flows from here.
When the relationship is good
Attitudes
I talk to Jesus throughout my day, not just in formal prayer times
I bring my actual worries and fears to him rather than managing them myself
I approach Scripture expecting to hear from a person, not just read a text
I believe that Jesus actually wants to communicate with me today
Actions
I set aside a few minutes of quiet today — not to talk, but to listen
When I read Scripture, I pause on what catches my attention and ask Jesus what he wants me to see
When I face a decision, I pause and ask what he would have me do before I act
I pay attention to the quiet promptings that come during the day and test them against Scripture
When the relationship is hard
Attitudes
Even when I feel distant from him, I choose to believe he has not moved
I bring my doubt and confusion to him honestly rather than hiding it
I do not wait until I feel worthy to come to him — he is the reason I can come at all
Actions
I return to him after failure without long delay or excessive self-punishment
I tell him I am struggling even when I don't have the words for it
When I cannot hear him clearly, I stay in the last thing he said clearly and keep showing up