Relationship

Self

How you relate to yourself shapes every other relationship. You cannot give what you have not received.

When the relationship is good

Attitudes

  • I receive God's forgiveness for past failures rather than carrying them

  • I see my gifts and abilities as given by God, not as my own achievement

Actions

  • I take care of my body and rest as acts of stewardship, not indulgence

  • I notice when I am running on empty and ask for help rather than pushing through alone

When the relationship is hard

Attitudes

  • I resist the inner voice that says I am beyond repair or too far gone

  • I do not compare my inner life to others' outer appearances

Actions

  • I speak to myself the way I would speak to a struggling friend — with honesty and kindness

  • I seek help — from God, a friend, or a counselor — rather than isolating with my pain